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No, I just got a different tumblr. I’ll put the link in your ask (:
Okay I’ll try to make this simpleee (: aha
1. go to customize (either on your dashboard or at the top of your profile next to dashboard.)
2. At the list at the top where it says Info, Theme, Appearance, etc. Click on Community.
3. The second box down in the community column should say “Let people ask questions” with a box to the left of it. Click the box so it is checked. Then you can change the Ask page title, and decide if you want anonymous questions as well.
Hopefully that wasn’t hard (: <3
NOTE* If you have put something in my ask box and haven’t seen it published:
I’m sorry I haven’t published any of your asks. It’s just that a lot of them are “thank you for the link” and stuff like that, so as much as I’d loooove to answer each and everyone one of them saying you’re very welcome with a little heart and smiley face, that would just annoy people and clog up there dashboards, as there were like 40 of those type of asks. Right now, I’m trying to stick to only answering the asks (or reply in their box) that are asking for help or advise, although hopefully I wont get any more of those on this tumblr, because I think everyone has the link to my new one. This note was just to the few anons who were getting mad at me because I didn’t publish their ask.
and you didn’t get a message from me, it is because you don’t have an ask box.
There are 2 of you that I’m talking to in particular, but you asked me not to post your questions <3
If either of you don’t know how to get an ask box, send me a message and I will do a text post saying how to do it (:
I promise darling, you’re nowhere near worthless, nor stupid. The fact that you didn’t keep it bottled up inside and actually talked to someone about it, means you’re rather smart infact! :]
I don’t really know what you see in the mirror, but from the sound of it, I would guess it’s not beauty. But you have to believe me when I tell you there is so much beauty there. Everyone in their own way is absolutely stunning. Sometimes, you just have to look hard.
I’m so proud of you for using the rubber band technique though! Even if it’s not working, you had the willpower to at least try something else. Which means you really do want to get better. And without that will, I feel like it would be almost impossible to.
I think right this second, you should drop everything you’re doing and go get 3 sheets of paper. On the first one, draw a picture of how you see yourself in the mirror. Use colors describing your mood, and write down a list of adjectives that you think describes you. Then rip the paper up to shreds. Then on the 2nd sheet of paper, do the same thing- only for how you think other people see you. (this includes your friends, enemies, family, strangers, etc.) Then rip that one up too. Now, on the last sheet of paper, draw what you wish you saw in the mirror. Wether it be scar free, long hair, an awesome hairdo, an average weight, whatever. Just draw it, and then think of positive adjectives you’d like to see in yourself. But, don’t rip that one up. Post it on your mirror. Every morning when you wake up, pick one of the adjectives you chose and say, “I’m gonna work on that one day.” Let’s say it’s.. confidence. Then that day go out wearing your most flattering clothes, talk to whichever sex you’re attracted too, and walk with your head held high [but not so high that you look like a turtle- cause I’ve done that before :o]
Okay so all of this may sound like something a therapist would say, and if you’re anything like me, you hate what therapists have to say. But trust me, this can work if you try. I’ve done something like this before, and for a while it really did change my life around, but then I gave up- which was a mistake on my part. So, please try this, If not for yourself, then for me <3 & if you do, let me know how things are going for you <33
ps. if you have a Facebook I could send you my link and we could chat on there, if you’d like <3
I may have already sent you a message with the link though.
I’m going to send it to every one of you (who have an ask), it’ll just take a while. If you want the link right away however, message me and I’ll send it to you.
btw- there’s a good chance you’ll get a message with the link in your ask a couple times, just saying.
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